"Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me." Philippians 3:12
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All of us need to grow. Personal growth is a life-long process that never stops. All too often, however, people get ‘stuck', bogged down by a particular problem or set of circumstances, or reach the limit of their current understanding. This Personal Growth Review aims to help you assess your life, set some goals, and begin to move forward. It is based on the belief that all personal growth is spiritual growth. Therefore, it is not just concerned with church activities or developing spiritual disciplines, but touches all areas of life. It is God's desire to see each of us grow and develop to our fullest potential ("I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full" John 10:10).
So how can we grow? By knowing where we have come from, by seeing where we are now, and by seeing where we need to develop. Growth can also be measured by ‘becoming responsible' in any particular area of life.
Please complete this review in your own time, then inform your Cell Leader so he or she can schedule a visit to go through the material with you. Please note: The Personal Growth Review always remains your property and should not be given or lent to anyone else. Complete as much of it as you can. If you do not wish to answer any particular question, simply leave it blank.
Enter the month and year you completed each section:
| Month and Year | Section |
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E3 Finding Life (A Study in John's Gospel) | |
| E4 Beginning with Christ |
| E5 Following Christ (Key Principles for Christian Living) |
| E6 Reaching Out |
| E7 Knowing Christ (Key Christian Beliefs) |
| E8 Leading a Cell Group |
| E9 Coaching Cell Group Leaders |
This section looks at your present progress in developing positive spiritual habits. God uses these habits to build Christ-like character within us. Answer the questions honestly, marking the option you achieve most consistently. Numbered options are progressive – higher numbers can give you some new goals to aim for.
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Every week
4. Every day
5. 2 –3 times a day
6. Continually
1. 5 minutes or less
2. 10 minutes
3. 15 minutes
4. 20 minutes
5. 30 minutes
6. 1 hour or more
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Every week
4. Every 2-3 days
5. Every day
6. Two or more times a day
(That is, take time to understand Scripture and write down your findings)
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Every month
4. Every week
5. 2-3 times a week
6. Every day
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Monthly
4. Every 2 weeks
5. Weekly
6. Daily
Note: Fasting, giving up food for a time, helps us to seek God's will, to humble ourselves before him, and to seek special answers to prayer.
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Regularly
1. Never
2. 4 hours
3. 8 hours
4. 24 hours
5. 2-3 days
1. Rarely
2. Every month
3. Every week
4. Several times a week
(Include all giving to church and good causes)
1. Never
2. Occasionally
3. Every few months
4. Every month
5. Every week
1. Don't give
2. Respond to direct requests
3. Regular gift/tithe
4. Firstfruits (e.g. first payrise…)
5. Special gifts/Thank offerings
1. None
2. Occasional, informal
3. Regular, informal
4. Occasional, organised
5. Regular, organised
6. A ministry leader
1. None
2. Occasional, personal
3. Regular, personal
4. Occasional, organised
5. Regular, organised
6. An outreach leader
Use this section to record spiritually significant experience since your last Personal Growth Review. Include things like any ministry/service you've been involved in, any positions you've held within your group or church, any special training received, any life-events that have been of special significance to you (e.g. marriage, birth of children, deaths, new job, house move, major health issue, a special difficulty faced etc.). Include dates or time periods if you can, e.g. Prayer leader in cell group from May 2011. Continue on a separate sheet if necessary.
If this is your first Personal Growth Review, try to outline the major highlights of your spiritual history up till now. Include things like:
Write your response in an appropriate place.
In 1 or 2 sentences describe how you feel about what you've written above. How do you currently feel towards God?
Write your response in an appropriate place.
Relationships are the foundation of life. Relationships with one another, and relationship with God. The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. The whole point of the gospel message is reconciliation through Christ, first between man and God, then between man and man (see Colossians 1:19-20; Ephesians 2:14-16).
For the gospel message to be any advantage to us at all, we must apply it to our relationships. God's principles for relationships, even when they seem the very opposite of our natural thinking, are the ones that work – he is the designer of life; he is the Creator. This section looks at your relationships in the light of some of these principles.
1) Who are the current members of your household?
2) Who are the people closest to you at this point in life?
3) What aspects of these relationships do you appreciate most?
4) What aspects of these relationships bother you?
5) What would you change if you could?
Think of all the people you regularly come into contact with.
1) How well do you feel you are applying God's principles in these relationships? |
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2) What are the areas or issues in these relationships where you'd like to do better, or where you'd appreciate help? |
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3) Who are your enemies, and who might consider you as their enemy? |
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4) What is your relationship like with them? |
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Character could be defined as your collection of personal qualities, based on the values you believe in, that define the way you habitually behave. Character can be described as ‘good' or ‘bad' and it can grow, becoming better or worse over time. Character growth is strongly influenced by the company we keep and the values we hold to. The Bible refers to character growth in various ways: Being conformed to the likeness of Christ; growing in godliness; being made holy. Whichever way we describe it, being transformed into the likeness of Christ is one of God's key purposes for every believer.
"…put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." (Ephesians 4:24)
"And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory…" (2 Corinthians 3:18)
"…train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come."
(1 Timothy 4:7-8)
1 = very poor, 10 = excellent. Get a trusted friend to rate you independently. Cover up each other's ratings so you don't influence each other.
Jesus…
…loves people. (Mark 10:21; John 11:33-36; 15:13)
…is kind and compassionate, full of mercy and grace.
(John 8:3, 10-11; Mark 1:40-42)
…is holy, godly, pure. (John 8:29, 46; 9:31-33; Hebrews 4:14-15)
…is good, righteous and just. (Mark 10:17; Luke 20:21; John 5:30)
…is honest and truthful, a man of integrity. (John 18:37; Matthew 22:16; Revelation 3:7)
…is patient and persevering. (John 8:1-11; Luke 13:6-9; Mark 9:17-19)
…is faithful. (Revelation1:5; 3:14; 2 Timothy 2:11-13)
…is disciplined and self-controlled. (Mark 1:35; Matthew 26:39, 44, 50-54)
…bold and courageous. (John 2:13-16; Matthew 23:13; Luke 22:39-44)
…gentle and humble. (Matthew 11:28-30; John 8:3, 10-11; Philippians 2:5-8)
…is peaceful, confident, secure. (Mark 4:37-40; John 14:27; 19:10-11)
…is submissive to authority. (Luke 22:42; Hebrews 5:7; Mark 14:60-61)
From the very beginning God designed mankind to work (Genesis 2:15). Work forms a major part of our lives. And God, in his word, has provided guidance to help us in our approach to work.
1) How do you feel about your current work situation? Do you find it satisfying? |
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2) What would you change, if you could, to improve your present experience of work? |
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3) How well are you managing to meet your own needs and those of your family? Are you managing to have a little spare to help others? |
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4) How well balanced is your work-life? Do you make enough time for important relationships? |
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5) Is there anything you think needs to change in your current work situation? What first steps will you take to make it happen? |
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Having assessed your spiritual habits, recent history, relationships, character development and work situation, the next step is to set some development goals. Ask the Lord to guide you through this process. Your answers in the previous sections will give you some pointers.
May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.
(Psalm 20:4)
E8.x3 Personal Growth Review - Version 5 – Jun 12